Important! Please Read.

Written by Jake on May 3rd, 2008 in Politics, Society, Technology.

We’ve decided to roll our Conversations over Dinner blogs (both Him and Her) into one. In addition, we are incorporating Between the Blogs into this new, single blog, titled simply “Conversations over Dinner.”

Basically we’ve done this because we’d rather have one blog online, frequently updated, than three blogs, each not being given our full attention. We think that in the long run you will agree.

So please join us at Conversations over Dinner.

Thanks,
Jake & Mandy

Believe It Baby!

Written by Mandy on April 10th, 2008 in Blogs, Society.

  • “I believe that men in this country would flip out if their rights were decided by a supreme court consisting of eight woman and one man.”
  • “It’s not about finding yourself. It is about creating yourself.”

 

This is but a small sample of the words of wisdom, grace and humor you will hear in the five-minute film, “Believe It Baby!” by In The Trenches Productions. In a few short minutes, these women — some you will recognize, some you won’t — will take you on a journey of discovery and self-awareness.

Some woman state, rather convincingly, “I believe I am beautiful,” while others hesitate before uttering those words. By the time the closing credits roll, you will find yourself smiling and agreeing, wishing you could spend some time over lunch with this group.

 

Women of all ages and, yes, men too, will enjoy this thought-provoking short film.

 

Visit In The Trenches Productions and click on “Believe It Baby!”

A Clicking Time Bomb

Written by Jake on April 4th, 2008 in Politics, Society, Technology.

In today’s Washington Post — Business Section — there is an article titled Every Click You Make. For those of use who use the Internet, regardless of your interests and/or online pursuits, this is one scary read. It seems that certain Internet Service Providers are, on a contractual basis, monitoring every single keystroke you make each time you sit down to use your computer. Your clicks are then analyzed, sanitized, and sold to companies who use the information to target YOU for certain online ads that it has determined, from your online endeavors, would most interest you.

The companies, ISPs, etc. bury their disclosures of this practice in multi-page documents filled with legal jargon that you agree to when you sign up for your internet account. Worse, they don’t actually state what it is they’re doing. They will, instead, acknowledge that they work with 3rd party advertising providers to collect certain information. Innocent enough, right? Sometimes — but in this case — no, it’s not.

While we’ve all sadly, and to our discredit, gotten used to a certain lack of individual privacy in today’s world, it is reprehensible that these companies should be permitted to mine this kind of detailed information all for the benefit of the few who seek to market their trinkets to you when all you’re trying to do is read Aunt Bertha’s blog about her trip to Hawaii.

I’d call for the government to get involved in outlawing this type of practice by ISPs, but truthfully, I have absolutely no faith in their ability to do so. And that’s sad too.

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It’s Rainin’ Glass – Hallelujiah!

Written by Mandy on April 2nd, 2008 in Society.

 

Some say we live in a man’s world, but after one conversation with Marion Paul you won’t believe that for a minute. Others will smile and tell you to make lemonade of the lemons that life hurls your way. Well, Marion not only made lemons, she quite literally built, owns, and runs the lemonade stand – plus the hot dog stand, the sausage stand, and even the snowball stand. You’d know that too, if you ever spent a day at Fannie Farkle’s in Gatlinburg, Tennessee.

Read about one woman who didn’t let the “glass ceiling” stop her… at In The Trenches Productions…

When it comes to clothing and make-up, we tend to fall into particular patterns by our mid-twenties. We’ve decided which clothes look best on us and we’ve perfected our hair and make-up. We know what works and we stick to it. And that is precisely the problem. We go through our thirties and well into our forties, failing to notice that our appearance has changed in subtle — and not so subtle ways. What once worked simply doesn’t anymore. Fear not, for help is on the way!

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Three Cheers for David Paterson

Written by Jake on March 18th, 2008 in Blogs, Politics, Religion, Society.

I didn’t know that everyone who runs for public office is supposed to be perfect in mind, thought, and deed. No only are they supposed to be so now, but they are supposed to have been that way every single day of their past. At least, that’s how it seems if you watch how the press went after NY’s new governor, David Paterson.

It seems that Gov. Paterson had an affair. OK, more than one. It seems that his wife did likewise. They had… what shall we call it… a fidelity crisis brought on by other problems within their marriage. My response to that is simply, ‘OK, thanks, but it’s really none of my business.’ Nor, dear reader, is it any of yours. Nor, dear horribly misguided press corps, is it any of YOURS.

Watching David Paterson handle this pack of wolves has made me smile, perhaps for the first time in quite awhile concerning the antics and goings-on of politicians. The Governor came clean because, as he put it, “I don’t want to be blackmailed.”

Good for you, Governor. Good for you. You’re my new hero.

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Truth or Dare from the Pulput

Written by Jake on March 15th, 2008 in Politics, Religion, Society.

The news and the blogs are abuzz with the Reverend Wright’s ‘fiery’ remarks to his congregation. Remarks that some deride as racist.. remarks that some insist must color [no pun intended] the world viewpoints of both Barack Obama and his wife, Michelle.

I have a few remarks of my own… and a question or two of you, dear reader.

Have you actually taken the time to read the Reverend’s remarks? Not just watch the snippets thrown at you by mass media, but the words themselves. Not the ‘fiery’ delivery of a skilled orator who knows how to rile up his congregation, but the words themselves.

Here are some as printed in today’s Washington Post. Let’s play a game. Let’s see if we can be honest with ourselves and make a decision as to whether or not what the Reverend says is true.

Here goes:

#1: “We [the USA] bombed Hiroshima, we bombed Nagasaki, and we nuked far more than the thousands in New York and the Pentagon, and we never batted an eye…. America’s chicken’s are coming home to roost.” — Sermon, September 2001

First off, I don’t know about you, but I’m always curious as to what was actually said in the space that’s left out and simply referred to as ‘….’. But leaving that aside, what about the remark itself. True — or False.

I say that it’s mostly TRUE. We DID bomb those cities and we have nuked a LOT more people than those who died in NY and the Pentagon. No disputing that, no matter how you feel about the USA. Fact is, after all, fact.

I would take some exception to the part about us not having batted an eye at those deaths. America, when it does evil, does have a conscience. Maybe not our leaders so much, as evidenced by our sitting President, but certainly the people themselves do.

As for American’s ‘chickens coming home to roost,’ I would have to say, by and by, that this too is, regrettably, true.

#2: “We [African Americans] are descendants of Africa, not England…. We have a culture that is African in origin — not European. The Bible we preach from came from a culture that was not English or European.” — from the 2005 book, “Blow the Trumpet in Zion”

This one goes to the Reverend. Jesus was not a European. Neither were the Apostles. The New Testament does not have it’s roots in European culture. It is much more African… Mediterranean… in its roots.

That said, I guess this one is: TRUE.

#3: “The government gives them the drugs, builds bigger prisons, passes a three-strike law and then wants us to sing ‘God Bless America.’ No, no, no; God damn America! That’s in the Bible for killing innocent people.” — Sermon, 2003

Obviously, I would have no first-hand knowledge as to whether or not the government gives drugs to the black community. That’s been alleged for years. I would, however, ask the Reverend to be a bit more specific on this charge. Perhaps it’s something that should be investigated. As for building bigger prisons, I guess that’s true. There are a lot of folk in prison these days. The Reverend did, however, most probably make a mistake when he said ‘God damn America!’ Some of you may agree with him. Others may not. There are many things that America has done for which it should be damned… and is, obviously, damned by many throughout the world. As for whether God will damn America, I guess that’s up to God to decide.

Evaluation of this remark: May be TRUE. May be FALSE. I don’t know, but I’d sure like to find out, wouldn’t you?

#4: “Racism is how this country was founded and how this country is still run.” — Sermon, 2006, delivered at Howard University

Sorry folks, but America is as racist as they come. That, unfortunately, was true in the days when it was first founded and, for the most part, is still true today. I’d have to agree with the Reverend on this one.

#5: “Hillary is married to Bill, and Bill has been good to us. No, he ain’t. Bill did us just like he did Monica Lewinsky.”. — Sermon, January 2008

Once again, I’d like to have heard a little bit more. I always thought that Bill Clinton was a strong supporter of the African American community. Perhaps Bill Clinton has done things that have offended that community. If anyone has any input here, it would be appreciated.

I’d put this remark in the UNDECIDED category. Regardless, I wouldn’t exactly classify this remark as anti-American.

I’m going to take a stab at figuring out what’s going on here? I’m thinking that the Republican Party’s incredibly efficient Public Relations machine has decided that the best way to get John McCain elected is to give white America a reason to FEAR Obama. Going after remarks made by Obama’s reverend, then implying that white America should FEAR Obama — that years of listening to this rhetoric must have made some impression on him — is simply the Republican’s way of trying to turn Democrats away from Obama and, knowing that they won’t vote for McCain, instead get them to endorse Hillary Clinton.

The Republicans know that McCain will beat Clinton. They FEAR what might happen if McCain is forced to go head-to-head with Obama.

I say we give the Republicans reason to fear.

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Clinton and Obama: A Place in the History Books

Written by Mandy on March 13th, 2008 in Politics.

Unquestionably, future history books will give Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton their due.

Overshadowing their amazing accomplishments are the blatant racism and sexism which have taken center stage in the race for the democratic presidential primary.  It was inevitable that the deep divides within our culture would surface with the mounting pressure of a prolonged campaign. Unfortunately, we probably haven’t seen the worst yet.

Election 2008 will be one for the history books. The story yet to be written — how low will we go?

Hold the ‘B’ Word, Please

Written by Mandy on March 11th, 2008 in Blogs, Politics, Society.

 

From In The Trenches Productions, Politics and Sexism: Hold the ‘B’ Word, Please

Steve King: Unconscionable Fear Mongering

Written by Mandy on March 8th, 2008 in Politics.

I wasn’t sure I heard what I thought I heard. It couldn’t be. I had to watch the news a second time. Then I had to check several online news sources. I’m sorry to say that I heard correctly.

According to Rep. Steve King of Iowa, If we elect Senator Barack Hussein Obama as our next president, “The radical Islamists, the al-Qaida … would be dancing in the streets in greater numbers than they did on Sept. 11 because they would declare victory in this war on terror.” He went on to say, “His middle name does matter, it matters because they read a meaning into that.“

Yes, he had more to say. He explained that he did not intend to demean Senator Obama. He’s just trying to ‘warn’ us.

As a seasoned politician, King knew exactly what the soundbyte would be. He knew that bigotry and fear are powerful weapons.

Unconscionable.

You have succeeded in instilling fear, Mr. King. Fear that you, and others of your ilk, are among the leaders of our nation. I’m afraid…very afraid.



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